The Narthex
Real Treasure, Lost and Found
On getting one's hands dirty while sharing wealth
By Richard DellOrfano | April 29th 2019 5:03 PMIn 2014, I was in discussion with the principal of St. Joseph Academy about my teaching a finance course there. When I happened to mention my brother owned and operated a successful gold mine, that led to an eager invitation for a Power Point presentation at the school. Since Bill…
READ FULL BLOG POSTLife's a Carousel
Behind the wall of mirrors are complex, unseen elements
By Richard DellOrfano | April 23rd 2019 1:18 PMIn Balboa Park, a renewed antique carousel turns round and round, with bobbing horses and the familiar circus décor and music. It has one of the few operational brass-ring games anywhere. I was touring the Park to create an excursion video for the San Diego County Library branch in San…
READ FULL BLOG POSTFor Every Idle Word
Even in our speech we are always accountable to God
By Richard DellOrfano | April 15th 2019 3:49 PMWhen I was a kid in the 1950s, a uniformed policeman with white gloves would direct the flow of traffic at busy intersections. Not any more. Now computerized robots do it better. Despite the advances of artificial intelligence by 2001, we humans still had to program unique routines into each…
READ FULL BLOG POSTBenchmarks
By God's grace we can provide for others a gold standard
By Richard DellOrfano | April 5th 2019 3:07 PMMy 15-year-old Royal Apricot tree died last year. It had borne the nectar of the gods. Taking an axe to its roots, I mourned as if a beloved monarch had passed on. I closed my eyes in memoriam to savor once again the rich harmonics of its flavorful, exotic fruits.…
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A psychologist, a minister, a disabled Marine veteran, and a writer discuss war
By Richard DellOrfano | March 28th 2019 4:37 PMAs I stood in the entry of an Assisted Living dining hall, hoping to join my friend after lunch, I overheard this comment: “She’s no angel. I heard she shacked up with George last night.” The speaker nodded toward another woman two tables over with coiffed hair and Fifth Avenue…
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Death Is Not What it Seems
God knows how difficult is the struggle against depression
By Richard DellOrfano | March 21st 2019 3:04 PMIt is the Ides of March. I’m at the San Marcos Cemetery. Its flat headstones, aligned between scraggly trees on acres of fresh-cut green grass, can’t compete with cemeteries back east. Richmond, Virginia, has historic statues 20 feet tall and Romanesque tombs inscribed with inspirational poetry and sculpted battle scenes.…
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God's love is our ultimate safety net
By Richard DellOrfano | March 13th 2019 2:26 PMI’ve lived in my lower class neighborhood since 1973 when I bought a four-bedroom house and rented rooms to other youths hoping to start a commune. California’s Prop 13 keeps my property tax low, whereas new buyers nowadays pay eight times as much. Sometimes it pays to be old. But…
READ FULL BLOG POSTMy Lenten Garden
Spiritual insights are derived from simple, earthly actions
By Richard DellOrfano | March 8th 2019 4:00 PMMy vegetable garden is a 4 x 10 planter box with gopher-proof screening and a weed-banning cloth. Its soil is enriched with root enzymes and minerals, wriggly worms, and rich humus. I nearly broke my back constructing it, but it was worth the anguish. I’ve got international participation from healthy,…
READ FULL BLOG POSTFollow the Money Trail
Sexual unchastity breeds in a context of luxury and power
By Richard DellOrfano | March 7th 2019 4:36 PMMy dad used to say whenever motives got confusing, "Follow the money trail." The contemporary Church hierarchy now has one thing on its mind and one only: money. If prejudice is the essence of evil, then this hierarchy is evil in its prejudice for cushy retirements, luxury lifestyles, glorious cathedrals,…
READ FULL BLOG POSTHave Love for One Another
Charity trumps points of disagreement
By Richard DellOrfano | February 28th 2019 4:47 PMYesterday in the public library I had a challenging conversation with a Protestant evangelical friend who holds the firm belief that the Bible is all she needs to live a holy life (Sola Scriptura). Her private interpretations of Scripture are the result of inward counsel and the Sunday preaching of…
READ FULL BLOG POSTHis Master's Voice
The faithful companion listens for God's whispers
By Richard DellOrfano | February 26th 2019 4:43 PMMother had a collection of vinyl records that I would listen to on a cold wintry day. Some of her vinyl had the interesting RCA Victor trademark label of a Jack Russell Terrier listening to an Edison bell-cylinder wind-up gramophone. The caption underneath read “His Master’s Voice,” with the cute…
READ FULL BLOG POSTSuffer the Little Children
Young kids are God’s gift to parents and to those who encounter them
By Richard DellOrfano | February 20th 2019 2:13 PMAfter facilitating a Tuesday senior writing group in the San Marcos County Library, I attended a chess club session held in the same conference room. Four game boards were set up on card tables and eight competitors were playing chess across from each other. At the far end a young…
READ FULL BLOG POSTBingo
Protestant churches survive without bingo and raffles
By Richard DellOrfano | February 18th 2019 6:40 PMOur local senior center holds a well-attended bingo game once a week. “B-10,” a moderator announces by microphone, and a hundred heads nod to scan their cards. It’s a good money maker for city services while providing a needed social event. Our local parish does the same to provide funding…
READ FULL BLOG POSTConduct for Learning
Three cheers for Catholic students who are taught good manners
By Richard DellOrfano | February 4th 2019 3:28 PMIt’s been over 50 years since I taught physics and math ― not the most popular subjects, compared to hands-on training in auto mechanics at a vocational trade school in Beacon Hill. My young students were a rambunctious lot, shooting spit balls and flying paper planes when I entered to…
READ FULL BLOG POSTInspired by Bishop Sheen
His zeal and charisma continue to stir hearts
By Richard DellOrfano | January 29th 2019 3:32 PMIt was 1953 when I found myself at 11 years old tuning into Bishop Fulton J. Sheen’s weekly Tuesday night commentaries on our black and white television. I don’t know how I got motivated to watch him every week, because my parents weren’t into Catholicism. I was raised a Catholic,…
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