The Narthex
The Seeds of Desire
Enslavement to the so-called American dream
By Richard DellOrfano | February 17th 2020 4:31 PMThey say Ken died of a heart attack working hard at what he loved, construction management. I had attended his Catholic marriage and recall the happy couple leaving the wedding reception, then standing together waiting in the hotel lobby to take the elevator to a honeymoon suite. But back then…
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Jesus presents a serious spiritual challenge of self-mastery
By Richard DellOrfano | February 10th 2020 4:13 PMBack in the 1960s, the Church banned dirty movies, deeming them a threat to the functional norms of civilization. Sex scenes were few, if any, and relegated to cloaked suggestives in the golden era of Ben Hur, Exodus, and Magnificent Obsession. As Hollywood norms changed, I would fast-forward love-making scenes…
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A symbol of spiritual rebirth and transformation
By Richard DellOrfano | January 30th 2020 9:43 PMIn the early 1970s, I joined a singles’ mixer that took a charter bus to a hotel in Rosarito Beach, Mexico. About fifty of us worked on suntans around the pool enclave shielded from offshore winds by a glass barrier. Laughter, mixed with nonstop chatter, filled the air as alert…
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It seems a living cathedral with columns, ramparts, and archways
By Richard DellOrfano | January 20th 2020 4:18 PMWe visited the Hawaiian Islands in 1987 and took a tour of Lahaina, the former royal capital on Maui. In that small town, the activity was along Front Street lined with stores and restaurants, and packed with tourists. In the middle of the historic district, Banyan Court Park featured an…
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Creating an other-worldly atmosphere
By Richard DellOrfano | January 11th 2020 6:13 PMSome years ago I visited the Fleet Space Theatre in Balboa Park where an exhibit in its science museum seemed to fascinate a crowd of onlookers. I drew close to read a placard claiming this intriguing treasure was from some Oriental dynasty, thousands of years old. It was a simple…
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Who knew a dog could give a goodbye embrace?
By Richard DellOrfano | January 6th 2020 10:39 PMJack, a member of our writing group, invited us to an appetizer party one afternoon after Christmas. On arriving, I rang the doorbell but heard no sound and saw only one car parked outside. I rang the bell again, then phoned to ask if I had the wrong time and…
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On the narrow range and shallowness of our knowledge
By Richard DellOrfano | January 2nd 2020 5:38 PMThough using a wide variety of clever devices daily, few of us know how they work. Our roles in society are so specialized, and our cars and computers so sophisticated that most of us do not understand how they operate and can not fix them. All that matters to us…
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Food companies sicken us with junk food, but we buy it
By Richard DellOrfano | December 19th 2019 11:34 PMAt 9:00 on Saturday morning, cars are not jammed in the parking lot and only a few customers cruise the aisles of employee-owned WinCo's supermarket. At that early hour, it takes me about 30 minutes to finish my usual shopping list, with an average bill of $50 a week for…
READ FULL BLOG POSTTrain Travelogue - Part VI
A long train journey ends with family
By Richard DellOrfano | December 16th 2019 3:53 PM1:00 PM, Harpers Ferry, West Virginia, Friday, April 15, 2011 Jason, Craig, Joe, and I sit together in the train's lounge. We are absorbed in the luscious scenery where Virginia, West Virginia, and Maryland conjoin with the Potomac and Shenandoah Rivers. The Appalachian Trail runs through here. We are entering…
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Why do I keep meeting like-minded people on the train?
By Richard DellOrfano | December 5th 2019 10:11 PMOn an Amtrak train approaching Maryland, Friday, April 15, 2011 Craig invites Jason, a young genius in his late twenties, to join us. He is a non-degreed application technician devoted to robots as chief artist and scientist in the employ of Mechanimal in Pittsburgh, PA. He is traveling to D.C.…
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The richest nation in the world can’t do better than rickety old trains?
By Richard DellOrfano | November 29th 2019 2:38 PM3:15 PM, Thursday, April 14, Chicago, IL On Amtrak, Craig, the eco-engineer I met earlier, and I arrive at Union Station, Chicago. Since we are both traveling to D.C. and have a three hour layover, we decide to walk down Wacker Drive and eat at a restaurant. Craig and I…
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Time for reflection and stimulating conversation
By Richard DellOrfano | November 20th 2019 4:27 PM4:00 PM, Wednesday, April 13, 2011, near Raton, NM We’re approaching 9,000 feet as we climb to Raton. These are the first pine trees we have seen on this trip. I’m beginning to feel some shortness of breath climbing the steep stairs from the rest rooms. It’s an uncomfortable feeling,…
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More dialogues with passengers aboard a cross-country Amtrak
By Richard DellOrfano | November 14th 2019 9:59 PMWednesday, April 13, 2011, 11:10 AM, Albuquerque, NM As I deboard the train for exercise during our stopover, I notice an old man having great difficulty stepping down the coach stairs. There he stands wobbly on the platform, mustering the energy to walk hesitantly with a cane, struggling to pull…
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Tedious travel provides unique social experiences
By Richard DellOrfano | November 8th 2019 4:04 PMIn the 1960s I made a penniless pilgrimage cross country from Boston to California. In 2011 I went in the other direction, this time aboard an Amtrak train. Join me as my train leaves southern California into northern Arizona. I have selected a few poignant episodes to illustrate what occurred…
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Doing the Father’s will by helping a homeless brother
By Richard DellOrfano | October 31st 2019 9:28 PMOn my evening walk, I spied a silver-bearded fellow sitting up like a marmot-in-surveillance between the wall and bushes of the Senior Center. I gave him a brief sidelong glance. His steady glare seemed threatening, but I could have imagined that, for it was hard to judge from a distance.…
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