In Praise of Weakness
December 2010By Alice von Hildebrand
Alice von Hildebrand, a Contributing Editor of the NOR, is Professor Emerita of Philosophy at Hunter College of the City University of New York. She is the author, most recently, of Man and Woman: A Divine Invention (Sapientia Press); The Soul of a Lion (Ignatius Press; preface by Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger), about her late husband, the Catholic philosopher Dietrich von Hildebrand; and By Love Refined (Sophia Institute Press). She has written extensively for many Catholic periodicals and works closely with the Dietrich von Hildebrand Legacy Project, whose aim is to translate her late husbands work into English.
Feminists are known to become enraged when women are dubbed the weaker sex. Given that the holy liturgy, while referring to Eves daughters, uses this epithet, it is a topic worthy of discussion. The word weak, like many in our vocabulary, has several meanings. It can refer to what is delicate, fragile, and in need of protection. Precious porcelain is more fragile than plates bought at the five and dime. A baby is weaker than a dog. Weak can also mean morally vulnerable, more likely to yield to pressure and temptation, less courageous. Hamlets words, Frailty, thy name is woman, have been quoted innumerable times, and will continue to be applied to what is also called the fair sex.
When speaking of female martyrs, the liturgy hails them with special honor because Gods power and greatness is best manifested by the fact that these weak creatures faced the most refined tortures with a fortitude that matched that of the most courageous of men. One easily forgets that one needs courage to face labor pains and give birth. Surprisingly, this is rarely mentioned today, even though, in the Old Testament, when an inspired writer refers to grave trials, he often adds like a woman in labor.
One can accurately take the pulse of a society by examining the virtues it extols. Today, efficiency, creativity, flamboyance, success, and inventiveness steal the show. Names like Bill Gates and Oprah Winfrey are applauded, praised, envied, and regarded with awe. They are success stories. Contrarily, heroic service, humility, patience, and forgiveness rarely make the headlines at least not as long as the virtuous person lives.
If women feel justified in taking offense when they are dubbed the weaker sex, should men be offended because they are not referred to as the fair sex? Does it mean they are ugly? As far as I know, men have not yet protested against this alleged discrimination.
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