Everyone Knows That!

December 2008By Raymond W. Belair

Raymond W. Belair, senior founding partner of the law firm of Belair & Evans, LLP, has practiced law in New York City for over 30 years. He is a doctoral candidate at the Graduate Theological Foundation in South Bend, Indiana.

On a mild Sunday in early October, I was reminded at Mass that it was Respect Life Sunday. On this day, "life chains" are organized as people stand along the sides of roadways, typically near their local churches, holding placards proclaiming the sanctity of human life to oncoming motorists. In one formulation or another, the message is conveyed that since life is worth living it is also worth saving. Our parish is not situated on a roadway appropriate for this exercise, so I chose to attend a life chain at a neighboring parish situated on the main thoroughfare in the area.

Arriving slightly late, I found a full selection of placards still available and selected one with the most direct message: "Abortion Kills Children!" I then took up position at one end of the line, 50 yards away from the nearest colleague. Some young children, who apparently came with their parents, were riding around on their bikes, offering us donuts.

Things were uneventful. As the traffic light changed at the corner by the church, cars would drive toward us and our signs would go up. After they passed, the opposite lane of traffic was given a view.

After a while, a friend of mine pulled his car over and got out to chat. As he was doing so, I noticed a woman peering over the top of my sign. She snapped a picture of me with a camera. My friend speculated that she was from the local newspaper, but the woman (I will call her "Abby") made it clear that she was not. Rather, she said she wanted to get a picture "of an a- -hole who's stupid enough to hold such a sign," so she could share it on the Internet with her buddies. She took our presence as a personal harassment, since she was the regional director of the Northeast Abortion Polycentric Institute (a pseudonym) and lived close by. She concluded that we were there because of her. In any event, I was stupid, my sign was stupid, my bow tie was stupid, anyone involved in the life chain was stupid, and we were doing this in her "backyard," she informed me.

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He said the kids were unfamiliar with the face of hate. I guess they must be home schooled; I'm pretty sure if they went to public schools they'd be familiar with hatred. Posted by: David Collins
December 09, 2008 09:23 AM EST
From the mouths of babes....
It never ceases to amaze me how some on the Left are so filled with rage and intolerance.
Posted by: luvgabe
December 08, 2008 08:31 PM EST
Raymond, if you have video of this exchange, and are willing to share it for the cause, would you please contact me at Thanks. Posted by: gespin3549
December 19, 2008 10:37 AM EST
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